你有没有觉得长大后越来越喜欢独处了？
<p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 18px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(77, 79, 83); font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\\5FAE软雅黑", SimSun, "\\5B8B体", Arial; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">不知你是否有这样的体会，人越成长，越喜欢独处。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 18px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(77, 79, 83); font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\\5FAE软雅黑", SimSun, "\\5B8B体", Arial; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">以前喜欢成群结伴、呼朋唤友，现在却喜欢一个人吃饭、一个人散步、一个人看电影。哪怕一个人发呆，也是难得的惬意和自在。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 18px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(77, 79, 83); font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\\5FAE软雅黑", SimSun, "\\5B8B体", Arial; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">其实，这样的转变并不是我们活得没有朝气、没有活力了，而是我们渐渐学会了与自己独处。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 18px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(77, 79, 83); font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\\5FAE软雅黑", SimSun, "\\5B8B体", Arial; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><br/></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 18px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(77, 79, 83); font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\\5FAE软雅黑", SimSun, "\\5B8B体", Arial; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><img src="https://www.usdt94.top/upload/forum/img/1701408040979058609.png" title="1701408040979058609.png" alt="01.png" id="img_upload" width="858" height="425"/></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 18px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(77, 79, 83); font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\\5FAE软雅黑", SimSun, "\\5B8B体", Arial; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 18px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(77, 79, 83); font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\\5FAE软雅黑", SimSun, "\\5B8B体", Arial; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">人这一辈子，孤独是逃不开的。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 18px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(77, 79, 83); font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\\5FAE软雅黑", SimSun, "\\5B8B体", Arial; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">与其勉强自己去合南辕北辙的群，去说言不由衷的话，还不如真真实实地去面对自己。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 18px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(77, 79, 83); font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\\5FAE软雅黑", SimSun, "\\5B8B体", Arial; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 18px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(77, 79, 83); font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\\5FAE软雅黑", SimSun, "\\5B8B体", Arial; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><img src="https://www.usdt94.top/upload/forum/img/1701408295687052127.png" title="1701408295687052127.png" alt="02.png" id="img_upload" width="865" height="338"/></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 18px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(77, 79, 83); font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\\5FAE软雅黑", SimSun, "\\5B8B体", Arial; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 18px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(77, 79, 83); font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\\5FAE软雅黑", SimSun, "\\5B8B体", Arial; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">有时，你分明很累，你也想有片刻的放松和缓冲。但即便如此，你也要一如既往地保持微笑、保持淡定、保持一种昂扬向上的姿态和心态。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 18px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(77, 79, 83); font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\\5FAE软雅黑", SimSun, "\\5B8B体", Arial; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">唯有独处时，你不用强颜欢笑，不用百般周全，不用去顾及别人的感受和情绪。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 18px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(77, 79, 83); font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\\5FAE软雅黑", SimSun, "\\5B8B体", Arial; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">你一个人时，无拘无束、无人打扰，才活得最像自己。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 18px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(77, 79, 83); font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\\5FAE软雅黑", SimSun, "\\5B8B体", Arial; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><img src="https://www.usdt94.top/upload/forum/img/1701408332675055227.png" title="1701408332675055227.png" alt="03.png" id="img_upload" width="854" height="375"/></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 18px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(77, 79, 83); font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\\5FAE软雅黑", SimSun, "\\5B8B体", Arial; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 18px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(77, 79, 83); font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\\5FAE软雅黑", SimSun, "\\5B8B体", Arial; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br/></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 18px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(77, 79, 83); font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\\5FAE软雅黑", SimSun, "\\5B8B体", Arial; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">越长大，越排斥无意义的群体生活,</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">人生这一路上最了解你的，还是自己,</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">比起忽冷忽热还是独处让人踏实,</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">人生没有白走的路 每一步都算数,</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">简单一点，过得也舒服一些,</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">不用忙于社交 讨好自己就好,</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">不适合自己的圈子，光是待着就很累,</span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">因为比起在关系中寻求释然和安慰，不如完成自己的蜕变和重生。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 18px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(77, 79, 83); font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\\5FAE软雅黑", SimSun, "\\5B8B体", Arial; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">一个人在宿舍，下午时睡午觉，一觉睡到六七点，一睁开眼，看着朦胧黑黑的天空和空荡的房间，有一种被全世界遗弃的感觉，孤独在这一刻体现的淋漓尽致。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 18px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(77, 79, 83); font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\\5FAE软雅黑", SimSun, "\\5B8B体", Arial; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"> 一个人在自己的小世界里很舒服</span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 18px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(77, 79, 83); font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\\5FAE软雅黑", SimSun, "\\5B8B体", Arial; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><br/><br/></span></p><p style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 18px; padding: 0px; color: rgb(77, 79, 83); font-family: "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft Yahei", "\\5FAE软雅黑", SimSun, "\\5B8B体", Arial; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><br/><br/></span></p><p><br/></p> <p>很感同身受啊,以前总觉得一个人多无聊,现在一个人也很开心，重要的是心情舒坦,不必每时每刻都在外面转,有时候一个人静静最好了。</p><p><br/></p> <p>应该是像歌曲里唱的那样：越长大越孤单</p> 不清楚，只知道自己越来越需要钱了 独处可以让我们想很多的问题，人多内卷多 Jerry杰瑞 发表于 2023-12-01 20:45:58<p>很感同身受啊,以前总觉得一个人多无聊,现在一个人也很开心，重要的是心情舒坦,不必每时每刻都在外面转,有时候一个人静静最好了。</p><p><br/></p>
独处的时光其实每个人都有，可以放松自己，想想事情，听听音乐，其实真的挺好的 阿斯顿发 发表于 2023-12-01 20:46:45
不清楚，只知道自己越来越需要钱了
谁都需要钱啊，钱能办很多事情，但是也有钱买不到的东西 鱼天下菜 发表于 2023-12-01 20:47:33
独处可以让我们想很多的问题，人多内卷多
还真是，人多的地方是非也多，现在的人太难接近，相处也没有那么单纯了 <p>一个人比较 自由自在了</p>
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